The recent controversies trailing an alleged secret marriage between
Stella Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan may not die down soon if the latest
information made available to is anything to go by.
An insider sent a mail to us explaining some unknown details about the marriage crash of Doris Simon and Daniel Ademinokan.
A copy of the email is presented below;
"Hello,
I
have stood by in the last couple of days to see this drama about Stella
Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan unfold. I have read countless blogs,
reviews and comments from all over the world and I have come to the
conclusion that people have no clue what they are talking about.
"I LIVED WITH DANIEL AND DORIS FOR ABOUT 4 YEARS SO, I CAN TELL YOU FACTS!
[This
is] not a hearsay or assumptions, I will even mention names that can be
verified. Let us not be distracted by this stunt that uncle Daniel just
pulled with the party and the gift.
"Let us focus on the root of this matter. When we know the foundation, we will know how to direct our anger and 'insults'.
"I
lived with Daniel and Doris because my sister was close friends with
Doris and at that time I needed accommodation in Lagos because my
parents were based in the South-South part of Nigeria. I lived with them
when they were still on Salami Street in Mende, Maryland, Lagos and
even when they moved to their Idowu Akindele Crescent residence in
Magodo GRA, Lagos.
"Daniel was a good man and the perfect husband
to Doris and he made her feel special in every way. He always spoke to
her nicely and was quick to defend her in many ways. He supported her
career and was determined to make Doris rise to the top above her
colleagues. He used to say that a lot and felt she deserved to be at the
top. He would always say, 'Dem Toyin, Funke, Dayo and co no fine pass
you. Dem nor act pass you. I have to position you at the top'.
"He
did everything in his power to put her there. Daniel cannot come and
boast to people, especially me that he single handedly financed all of
Doris' films. HE CAN'T. He was responsible for getting the finances but
it was not HIS money entirely that did films like ONITEMI and OMO IYA
KAN. The marketer named EPSALUM financed these films. I know that Daniel
may have added about 10%-20% of his cash at some point but it was
almost insignificant.
"The only film he did with his money for
her 100% was the film ASIRI. So if he ever claims he did those films for
her....quote me or ask EPSALUM.
"Doris was a good wife in her
own right. She supported her husband's passion to change the industry.
She dragged him into making Yoruba films which he really didn't want to
get into. She enjoyed the fact that out of most of her colleagues, she
was the one that had a STEADY home with a young and successful
guy...ambitious man too. She was the minister of finance.
"That's
what Daniel used to call her in the house because he always gave her
all the money to handle. He would bring money home an hand it ALL over
to her because she was efficient in money management, unlike him who was
a free giver and really had no respect or regard for money! Whether he
had enough or not, he never did care so much about cash. NEVER!
"For
the four years that I lived with them, not for ONE day did I ever hear
them raise their voices at each other in arguments or quarrels.
"You
would see them come out of their bedroom sometimes with weird
expressions and we would all know they just fought but you would NEVER
hear Daniel raise his voice. NEVER!
One thing that the world never know was how much both families NEVER wants them to get married.
"Doris'
parents didn't like Daniel and Daniel's mother (in particular) never
like Doris. She was against the relationship from the beginning. She is
known to be a heavy prayer warrior and she said God was against the
marriage from scratch but Daniel never listened to his mother.
"Now,
the HORRIBLE thing about Daniel is his stubbornness and hard headed
nature. He never listens to people and if he believes in something, it
would take a manifestation of the 10 plagues in Egypt to change his
mind. He is an extremely stubborn and very determined person. Which was
one thing I hated about him.
"Yes, he is nice, loving to his
family and friends but do not think for a minute that you can convince
him easily to change his mind when he has already formed an opinion or
decided on what he wants to do.
"He went on with the marriage.
His family believed that Doris trapped him with the baby but that is a
big lie. I have always disagreed with his mother on that note: I respect
the woman but Doris DID NOT trap Daniel with a baby. They were already
living together for 3 years before David was born. So the woman should
get her facts straight. Her son (I believe) wanted the child as much as
Doris did.
"I think along the line Daniel started to realize that
in many ways he and Doris were different. Much different than he had
thought. I believe Doris started to relax on several things because she
felt she had her husband and he was going nowhere. He was always very
expressive about his love, she was the opposite. He would run around the
house and want to play love games with her but she thought that was a
waste of time and energy.
"I personally experienced that with
them on several occasions. I guess Doris was more concerned about how
people perceived the relationship on the outside and not how sweet it
really was on the inside. She always wanted pictures of them out there.
Daniel was more concerned about making his marriage very 'Oyinbo-ish'
because that's who he has always been.
At some point I started to
feel that Daniel started getting tired of her excuses about being
expressive with her feelings even in the house. I think it suddenly
dawned on him that they were from two different worlds. Their command of
English was too far apart, their ideologies were different, approach to
situations, educational background, family, upbringing, etc. I believe
she just stopped being his wife and turned herself into a MAMA in the
house. I remember him buying her all sorts of short clothes and sexy
outfits from the US. I thought they were too daring but he didn't mind.
"The
marriage meltdown goes as far back as 2009. I know that I heard them
talking in hush tones a few times about how sex was a problem in the
marriage. I know for a fact that Daniel used to joke about it around the
house but you could see he was serious in those jokes. He was always
clowning about how he had to fill forms like an embassy to have sex with
his wife. I know at some point it was so bad that for almost six months
they didn't do anything.
"One thing I can tell you for a fact
is that in the course of their marriage, Daniel never cheated on Doris.
This was a known fact and EVERYONE knew how crazy he was about his wife
but really....is lack of s3x enough to ruin a marriage?
"Some
people Daniel confided in where his bosom friend ALEX EFFIONG who was
there when Daniel and Doris hooked up originally. I know I overheard
Daniel and Alex talking about it in the editing studio at the BQ in
Magodo. Two other people I know for a fact that Daniel confided in when
he was in America where his friends BUKKY EBUN of Nollywood View and
'LAMIDE DAVIES TALABI. You can ask them because they are on Facebook.
"These
two people will tell you the whole story and how they tried to step in
to advice. Even Bukky came to the house in Magodo at some point when she
visited Nigeria. She came with KAHA the singer. That's how I found out.
He was desperate to save his marriage that's why he took drastic steps
to talk to people.
"I blame Doris in some ways because she just
relaxed, trusted that everything was OK and that her marriage was going
to last forever. In marriage, you gotta keep working to make it good.
"What
annoyed Daniel the most was when he found out his wife had a shop that
he didn't even know about. He found out from outsiders and when he
confronted her, she said she was trying to surprise him. That really
pissed him off! He was enraged! This was when he grabbed his son and
left! Daniel was a very, very patient man but I hate the way he did it.
He just left!
"While everyone was celebrating the happy lives
these people shared, the marriage was already over!! They were just
patching things up! They kept holding on because of 'What people would
say'.
"Doris also messed up in certain ways because she could not
fight to keep her man. She was too comfortable and never imagined that
Daniel would get frustrated and leave. Not in this lifetime. I could see
it in his eyes everyday that he was just tired of struggling to make it
all work.
"Look for people like ALIU SHORINMADE who was his
personal assistant for five years. These were the people who knew Daniel
very well and how he avoided women like a plague. Let them tell you
facts. Let them tell you truths. Stella Damasus did not break up Doris
Simeon's home.
"That home was scattered long before Stella came
into the picture. I believe Daniel got the attention that he craved so
much at home in someone he considered a friend and sparks flew.
"When
i read that Daniel moved to Abuja and was being taken care of by a
woman, I laughed because the people saying this have no idea who Daniel
is. He is so arrogant in certain ways that he would rather die of hunger
than take a dime from any woman. HE IS THAT KIND OF MAN!
'He
will be too embarrassed to take a dime from any woman. The dude is a
workaholic....I give that to him. Films, Fashion, Documentaries,
Writing, Photography, Music, Publishing, Visual Effects, name it! He is a
master at them all.
There is so much I know and if all these names I mentioned here deny anything...they are lying! I can open a big can of worms!
"Look
for ALIU and ask him to tell you about the girl BLESSING that DORIS
brought into their house that stayed for almost three years. Daniel sent
her away from the house over four times and Doris kept bringing her
back. Why? Nobody knows! Can never be explained! He NEVER WANTED THE
GIRL IN THE HOUSE but she kept bringing her back. We know that at some
point Daniel discovered that this girl was s3xually abusing Daniel's son
DAVID! WHAT DID DORIS DO ABOUT IT???
"If all the parties
involved think I am lying, let them confront me! Let them deny it!
Daniel cannot deny it! Doris cannot Deny it! Aliu cannot deny it! They
know the truth!! There is a girl called SUNMISOLA that used to visit the
house some weekends then. She was close to Doris...find out and ASK HER
TOO!
"All I can say is that Daniel and Doris deceived EVERYONE
for a long time about how good the marriage was even when everything was
BITTER and SOUR! So those hating on Stella are really wasting their
time because STELLA DAMASUS DID NOT RUIN DORIS' MARRIAGE. Daniel and
Doris know what scattered them that led to their divorce in 2011. If any
of them feel I'm lying, let them challenge me.
Courtesy: Nigeriafilms
